In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm honest and loyal. Sometimes too much so. I haven't got it all right in life, but I'm happy with the direction I'm heading in now. I dislike injustice and often find myself standing up for the voiceless, the innocent or the abused. I'm an earth child and delight in nature, plants, animals and peace. The oceans soothe my soul, both above and below the waves. The mountains and the skies full me with wonder.
I don't like confrontation and give in too easily. Which is something I'm working on. Trying to be braver. When I love, which takes a while, I love whole heartedly and am totally committed to that person.
I'm down to earth and unpretentious. I've lived long enough to know what I don't like and to accept myself, as I am. I'm a home body and am quite content to spend a quiet weekend at home, doing things I enjoy or having friends over. I prefer a warm and welcoming home, over an immaculate house.
I am fortunate to be able to travel for work, which has given me the opportunity to experience many other cultures. But I am always happy to come home and draw peace and tranquility from my beautiful sanctuary.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm not looking for the perfect man. I want someone real. A man, who knows who he is, has learned about himself through life's lessons and can laugh at himself. Warts and scars will be accepted. In fact, I'd probably love him more for his imperfections.
Someone with old school chivalry, who is earthy and grounded. Someone who is confident enough in his masculinity to be able, to share his gentle and sensitive side. I'm looking for someone who is ready to love again. Someone who wants a deeper connection, not a quick fling. If you're married or on the rebound from a divorce, please don't message me.
Honesty, honour, loyalty and trust are really important to me. But most of all, I'm looking for someone kind and caring enough to want to understand me. If this sounds like a description of you, I'd love to start chatting
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Hillcrest, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Vegan | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Europe; South Africa; United States | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Italian; Norwegian; Other | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Optimistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Romance |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Camping; Horse Riding; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using SA Reunited SingleParents: |
Hopeful; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |