In His Own Words
About Him
My Name is Ben.
I have 2 kids that stays with me. I don't mind having more.
Finding the right person... that is difficult. One thing I ask, don't compare me with the rest.
What you see is what you get.
I'm not like other men. respectful, honest, straightforward
I'm not perfect that is why I'm not judgemental.
What you are looking for... I definitely got it and more.
I have a wicked dark sarcasm sense of humour. I'm also a bit naughty 😈
You have never met anyone like me...
Want to know me? Let's talk
About His Ideal Match
I dont care how you look, what you did in your past, or what you do for a living.
Age is just a number
I would love to have a woman that is...
*honest, straightforward and respectful
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Polokwane (Pietersburg) (Pietersburg), Limpopo, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
198cm (6' 6.0") | |
Body Type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An exhibitionist |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Outrageous; Quiet; Sarcastic; Shy; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; New Age; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Music Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Body building; Boxing; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Dancesport; Darts; Extreme sports; Field Hockey; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skateboarding; Skiing; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Surfing; Table Tennis; Walking; Water skiing; Weight training; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fast food; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Honesty: |
Very |
