In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm a proud parent who deeply loves my children and finds so much joy in watching them grow. I'm also passionate about my career—it drives me and gives me purpose. Friends often describe me as lively, lovely, and full of positive energy. I take life head on, embracing each day with a happy heart and a hopeful spirit. I'm looking for someone who’s ready to enjoy the little things in life with me—whether that's laughing over morning coffee, spontaneous weekend adventures, or simply enjoying quiet moments together.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm not one to get caught up in checklists—I believe the best connections come naturally. I'm simply looking for someone with a genuinely lovely personality, someone who can light up a room with kindness and bring warmth to everyday moments. A good sense of humor, a positive outlook on life, and a love for meaningful, intellectually stimulating conversations are what truly catch my attention. If you're an optimist who enjoys connecting on a deeper level and seeing the beauty in the little things, we might just get along perfectly.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Durbanville), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 49 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Curly; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Meditation; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Field Hockey; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Indian; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing household chores |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using SA Reunited SingleParents: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
